as we explode

life is the most valuable thing i believe anyone can possess.the deal is that facing all sort of experiences in life,we tend to forget that this is it! and nothing is worth enough to make us hate this wonderful limited time we have to spend together in a (sometimes crappy) society.
we cannot choose where to be born or in which family.there are some things that have been predefined and with which we have to deal.
i realised (a bit later than i thought) that life truly gives you meaning and you can choose to give meaning to your life.i don't think anyone wants to live a miserable life,in hunger beyond limits or excruciating pain.
the conclusion we can draw from this interesting aspect is that everyone wants to live a good life (good meaning normal,not necessarily luxurious).

ok,we have a goal.now we need the means to reach our target.you can either be good,listen to your parents,go to school,get good grades,get a good job,find a wife(not cheat her,if possible),start a family,get bored with such happiness and die peaceful around 60(you got hit by a bus,while crossing the street according regulations).
the alternative would be to be the greatest fighter in the block by 10,hate your parents and repeat that to them on a regular basis(daily),hate school and on the rare occasions you decide to go there you must tell your teachers you hate them,find a good job(as a dealer or thief or don-as in don corleone-or politician),meet the woman of your life while she was in a coma,have a few brats that will thoroughly follow your steps,live happily(when you're not in jail) and die around 80 due to a stroke.
i don't want you to understand that these 2 options are the only ones or that they would be 100% true.i've been looking around,left-right,lefter-righter,and observed all the above.

as i was saying,life is great for everyone,if you know how to enjoy it.i reckon this could be done by being happy with yourself,accepting that the others are different(and happy with themselves),keeping a positive attitude no matter what("M-au ciuruit,un fleac!"-alt exemplu nu mi-a venit in minte,mi scuzi) and love the one who loves you back.
the meaning of this post is for me to exercise my English,for you(those who don't know English) to stare with a blank expression and then click X and for those who know English,to exercise their reading and find out interesting shit about life.(ignore the last reason,i wish it were like this).
in the past few weeks i've been busy.meaning i had to make my heart ache(phisicaly,dunno how i managed to do that,but i'm damn good since the pain is still bugging me/and it has nothing to do with love issues).i went to cluj and saw my ..mandra..university and drank a lot and smoked a lot and had fun.yesterday,i rediscovered switchfoot and it feels damn good.


i won't wish you a happy valentine's,i know that you'll have one(or not :P ) even if i don't.